How to socialize with Japanese? -first time meeting-

Minasan Ohisashiburi desu. (long time no see, everyone)

Ogenki desu ka?

I’m sorry for not being updated for a while.

I conducted a seminar this week and I had been busy for preparing for it... (iiwake desu ne.. -am I excusing? hehe sorry..)

Today I’d like to introduce you one Japanese business tip from the seminar, about do and don’t while socializing with Japanese.

First step:

Here are the things you can talk about in the first time meeting. –Just general topics.

Onamae wa? What’s your name?

Oshigoto wa? What’s your job?

Osumai wa? Where do you live?

gokazoku wa? How’s your family?

goshusshin wa? Where are you from?

Building a good relationship with Japanese in business

Generally, it takes longer time to build a good relationship with Japanese compared to that in other countries. There are some topics you want to avoid in the first time meeting. Such as..

gokekkon wa? (Are you married?)

Okosan wa? (Do you have any children?)

Otoshi wa? (= oikutsu desu ka? / nan-sai desu ka? – How old are you?)

If you ask such questions, normally Japanese will give you a wry smile.

Actually it depends, as younger generations tend to be more open and casual, but the chances are still high. If you want to ask such questions, you may want to become a volunteer yourself first, such as marital status -but not in the first meeting- and wait until they open up to you.

hehe, is it "mendokusai?" -bothersome?

Smile and get used to it :)



Have a great friendship with Japanese!

Jaa mata ne!

Kazue